Lie to everyone but yourself

Don’t worry about me.

Is bullshit, if you deny your wants to others and then sulk about how you didn’t get what you want I want you to reach out with your right hand and choke yourself to death because hey “Don’t worry about me”.

Just do what you want.

If you choose to have integrity, have it with yourself first.


Attracting people you want in your life.

Have you ever found yourself in this triangle of discombobulated romance?

You like girl

Girl likes guy

Guy doesn’t give a shit

It may make for a nice sitcom or romcom.

But it makes for a shit ton of dysfunctional relationships in the real world.

What do you want?

Clearly in that situation you wanted the girl.

Now ask yourself why.

You may come up with a plethora of reasons

“She’s pretty”

“She makes me feel good”

“That ass”

This is good, you identified things you wanted and you sought after it in a female.

But somewhere down the line you saw that this girl wasn’t interested in you as much as you are in her. So she moves back.

You follow and you chase because.




Afraid that you will be alone and don’t deserve what you want, then you neurotically act out of this fear and you literally fucking draw what you were trying to avoid into existence.

Makes no fucking sense but, hey it happens.

You know it’s true too, if you aren’t bullshitting yourself, you can look back and see a time where you pushed someone away indirectly with your insecurity and needy behavior out of fear.

Being attached to a specific reality creates attachment to that specific outcome.

While this sounds like a good way to live, that image of reality is exactly that.

An image

Reality is a constant progression, no moment is the same.

The only reality is the now, and you cannot become attached to any one specific reality.

People who were attracted to you ONCE are a part of a different reality, and it changes like the wind. People come and go, and you’re human so you will miss what was but you will suffer if you do not adapt to what IS.

What to do.

What is happening now.

Right now as you read this.

Who are the people that activly seek you in their life?

Which women/men like you?

Are you happy?

What can you do to change that right now?




Do not wait another fucking second, focus only on what you want and the current moment you exist in, yesterday and tomorrow are not real, they do not exist, you have just this moment.

If I died writing this post, I’d die happy.

I’d die happy because I write with a purpose and I enjoy seeing others reap the benefits of this blog.

You need to do the same, do what you want, be willing to suffer in the name of a greater desire or purpose.

If you’re a gamer and you do it with a happy heart and enjoy it and love every aspect of it, odds are you’ll end up dating a gamer.

Focus on yourself and you will attract what you want

If you want a certain type of woman, and have really nailed down what you’re looking for, you won’t settle for less and that’s attractive to women, a man’s strength.

But if you fucking hate your job, social life, etc. A woman isn’t going to fill that void.

When you become a whole person who pursues their desires in every aspect of life, you will attract the same.

Stop procrastinating, do what you want.

Death won’t care if you had a enjoyable life.

Make sure you get what’s yours and then share the love.

Cheers- G

18 Things Every 18 Year old Should Know.

  1. ) Your purpose
    1. Firstly, to know your purpose you must only decide upon a desire and carry it to the end of earth. If you want to be one of the best guitar players alive. You simply need to play the guitar every day, it’s simple but not easy.
  2. ) How to fight
    1. Someone, somewhere, wants you dead for trivial reasons or perhaps personal reasons, if you’ve never been in a fight do not believe violence does not preside in humans deep inside, because it does and the more successful and out there you become, the angrier the lowly become. Do yourself a favor and learn how to defend yourself and loved ones.
  3. ) Your parents are here just to keep you from killing yourself
    1. Some parents have raised their children beautifully and support them and their outlandish ideas no matter what. But most just want you to get a steady job, pop out some grand-kids and settle down with a woman they approve of. Don’t listen to anyone that wants to limit you, even if they’re trying out of love to guide you.
  4. ) Stay Physically Fit
    1. Being fast and strong is key to a healthy and useful life, imagine the sheer pain of watching your child be hit be a car because you couldn’t move your body fast enough due to your weight. If not for your sake, your loved ones
  5. ) Be Proactive (Anti-Fragile)
    1. Sitting on your ass and allowing others to take the reins in your life is foolish and ends up in a washed up existence, do yourself a favor and take action, overly meticulous planning causes analysis paralysis, because on paper there’s always a better way to do things but paper doesn’t matter, you do. Just will yourself into starting it.
  6. ) Maintenance of your personal vehicle
    1. Just know how to diagnose and repair basic things on your own vehicle, take responsibility and never be unprepared
  7. ) Get a gun
    1. *Refer to # 2* Except easier
  8. ) Be social
    1. People will love you just if you ask them genuine questions, no one and I mean NO ONE gives a damn about your small talk, dive deep, don’t be too afraid, most people are a lot more friendly than you think, and if they aren’t there’s plenty more.
  9. ) Learn one specific skill and learn it well
    1. Being the best in any field will get you headhunted, it does not take a huge amount of time, just the dedication to keep trying and failing, literally if you fail enough you will succeed.
  10. ) Run a business
    1. Doesn’t matter how small scale, it will teach you to take risks and become unhindered by the odds and organizational skills, plus money is always great to have.
  11. ) Eat meat
    1. It tastes good
    2. Bacon
    3. Increases Testosterone and is essential for muscle growth and hormone regulation
  12. ) Surround yourself with equals or betters.
    1. Unless you are explicitly keeping people around because you mentor them, boot the losers out of your life. You know who I’m talking about. Equals and better people than you will only lift you up.
  13. ) There is no right time
    1. Want to go travel the world? Go now, you’ll never really be ready. There has never in history ever been a *Right Time*
  14. ) How to treat women in your life
    1. Women vote with their feet, if they aren’t orbiting you physically or trying to, they don’t give a fuck about you. The women that do, you should treat them like any other person. AUTHENTICALLY. If she looks beautiful and you love her, tell her, if she’s bothering you, tell her. Treat all women the same, truthfully.
  15. ) How to be a father
    1. I personally am not at this level yet (I think, haha) but here’s a beautiful family blog about this topic The Family Alpha
  16. How to lead
    1. Plan, Organize, Lead and Control. To motivate others you must simply help them adopt your vision and take good care of them, Quid Pro Quo (This for that) you are responsible for these people, they belong to you and they will leave if they want or if you fuck up. Stay on top of it.
  17. NO
    1. The most powerful word in your arsenal. You don’t have to do anything.
  18. Yes
    1. Your mind will grow around whatever you think on and do, say yes only to what you desire, stay busy and stay strong.

I hope this really helps out my younger readers.

Cheers- G

Make Fear YOUR Bitch.

We all have fears, anyone who claims to not is a liar.

That girl you worship and beat your dick to, she is afraid of something.

Donald Trump is afraid of something.

I am afraid of something.

We can either succumb to it over and over again and let the anxiety of failure and fear consume our lives.


We can expose ourselves to it over and over again until it no longer means anything to you.

This is a fact.

You cannot refute.

Embrace your fear and do ANYTHING about it.

Cheers- G

Actions Vs Words

“I hate you”

This sentence was uttered during a pause in kissing, that then resumed.

She could’ve said it over and over again, but if she was still kissing me.

Then I’m glad she hates me haha!

Let’s flip the script.

“I love you”

Uttered from a phone, from a long distance.

Then abandonment.

Soul crushing abandonment.

But they said “I love you”

Can you feel it?

I’d rather a friend bust my balls and tell me the hard truth with his words and then continue to stand by me and support me any day rather than a fair weather whisperer of sweet nothings.

Does that girl tell you she will think about it? Then never responds

That she’s interested? Then she never asks you anything

That she loves you? Then leaves you

Women are not liars, they’re the most socially intelligent creatures on this planet, they say what they feel in the present moment.

Just watch what they do. It doesn’t take much people watching to observe the patterns of those who are in love and those who are not. And if you as a man can identify such a thing, women can smell it from miles away.

If you think I’m bullshitting you, go find some girl you REALLY like, beat around the bush with her.

Tell me how it goes

If you get laid, I’ll give you $100

The women who show you that they want you.

The ones that message you out of concern.

Out of love and affection.

Choose them.


The illusion of control.

You can’t do shit.

You don’t even control your mind.

All you can do is influence.

To force something, is false. You cannot do it.

You can physically force someone to do something, but you are not “in control”

You are merely influencing the physical realm, you cannot control their mind.

Learn how to maximize influence, manipulation becomes prevalent after awhile.

Cheers- G

Destructive Comfort/Productive Pain

It’s way more comfortable for me to shit and wipe my ass while watching Rick and Morty on the toilet, then playing a round of P.U.B.G

It’s extremely comfortable.

But in the back of my mind there is a small ringing of a voice that’s telling me that my time is being wasted.

I could be going on some long ass hike, enjoying my time and the slight discomfort it brings to my calves after a few hours.

Or I could have written this already.

All it takes it just getting started, what is in motion trends to stay in motion.

Cheers- G


5 Ways to Get the girl. (Or lose if you don’t)

To win.

  1. Authenticity-
    1. Speak plainly, honestly and be direct, lying and manipulation work short term, but it causes A LOT of frustration long term.
  2. Physical Appearance-
    1. Clearly attractiveness is genetic and preferred, but even if you aren’t a 10, you should take care of yourself, workout, eat well. You’ll feel better and it’ll help out in multiple areas.
  3. A life-
    1. Do things you enjoy, take some risks, failure is guaranteed regardless of what you do, so fail big and MORE OFTEN THAN NOT, you will succeed.
  4. Empathy-
    1. Genuine care of another person is a wonderful thing to have in your life, you need to meet your needs and wants, afterwards you must do your best to help your other out of love and care.
  5. Confidence-
    1. To always be confident, fixate on one small task (Walking up to the girl you like, open the homework, talk to one customer, etc) enter that shit with boldness. BOLDNESS

This list is simplistic, use it and become a happy man with happy people.


Cheers- G

Anger, my gasoline.

Anger drives me.

It really does, it flares up so quick and it burns hot and bright.

Happiness guides me but anger drives me.

There is nothing wrong about being angry, all of your emotions are there to indicate your surroundings and bring you to a better place. You must be honest with yourself and with your emotions.

I’m angry I’m not rich, I’m angry that I still have some shitty people in my life.

I am Anger

I am Joy

I am Love

I am Jealous

I am Kind

I am Hateful

I’m Gray, I use all these things to guide me to where I want to be with the people I want to be with and want to be with me.

You do the same.

God bless- G

Movement is life.

Action really cures most ailments, thinking is good only when action accompanies it.


In the movie World War Z, Brad Pitt is pleading to a kind Hispanic family to keep moving with them.

He says: “Moverse es la vida”

Moving is life.

 Being still is not natural, if we didn’t move at all we’d be dead, movement is energy, you must exert energy.

If not, it becomes bottled up, stored.

Then it becomes something to identify with, all that pain

Keep moving, you’ll feel better

God bless- G

Love (The Blind and The Not)

You are a man, a human.

You are emotional, accept that

Stoicism is not natural.

Emotions all require a physical response, you must feel it to heal it.

Love, there is no shame in a man feeling love, it’s natural.

But do not let that blind you to the reality of the situation.

You might love your dog, but if it begins to bite you and other loved ones.

Time to Ole’ Yeller it.

If you have friends that claim allegiance to you, but betray in times of distress.

Take note, and remove them from your life.

Your environment is everything.

Don’t be lonely.

Love is just like all the other emotions, don’t shy away from them, embrace them and observe, march on.

God bless- G

The importance of people.


The word lonely is enough to depress, to dishearten.

Even prisoners, those society has labeled as the worst of the worst.

They are punished with solitary confinement, with crippling loneliness.

I have recently realized that I myself have been extremely lonely.

I came across this article by my man Victor Pride. (Read it)

How to stop feeling depressed, and start kicking ass.

(Photo Credits Via Bold and Determined)

I decided to sit down, write this

I talked to some friends

I feel good.


Addiction (Mental Wants and Needs)


A topic chosen by my follower alex.parraa (Bombass dude)

Addiction on the scientific level applies to the steady release of endorphins and dopamine into the body via a certain stimulus.

That stimulus can be a life event such as getting a promotion, sex, etc.

Or it can come from the artificial

Drugs, Alcohol, Etc

Now all these things in moderation don’t have much of a addictive effect. But since the artificial stimulants can be obtained at a moments notice, these things set you up for an addictive lifestyle. Everyone knows that.

Overthinking also leads to addiction, an addiction to overthinking leads to anxiety, and anxiety leads to a shitty life and early grave.

So with all this addiction what’s a man or woman to do?

In all honesty, addiction and habit are two sides of the same coin, you must choose wisely. Because one can turn you into a mad success, the other can detach you from the life you feel like is worth living.

The best way to rid yourself of one addictive process is to habituate and develop a different behavior (Become obsessed with something else)

It might sound like pseudo-science but it is a truth.

Do something small, small actions always lead to bigger ones.

If you’re addicted to weed, get some accountability and focus your attention on a goal and don’t stop.

Want to forget a girl, go get another, focus on your business or career.

One dog dies, replace it with another.

Sounds cruel but if you look at it in other humans, it works.

So, go get addicted.

Cheers- G

Sex vs your screen.

Real Sex > Porn

No fucking brainer right?

You’d think so, but the problem is that porn is the easy way out, the way out to go if you have not the “time” or “ability” to get laid.

Porn is convenient, too convenient. It can rob you of the drive to make love to an actual woman, the sharing of a closeness with another human in the most sensual way possible, and you would give it up for your hands.


I gave up masturbation about 6 months ago, so the inherent tone of hypocrisy probably sounds evident, but that’s fine. No one says you don’t have to be a  little hypocritical to make a point.

Sex is objectively better for you, better for your mind and body.

Increases all these:

  • Testosterone
  • Leptin Production
  • Growth Hormone
  • Unstresses the fuck outta you

Do yourself a favor

Stop jerking it

Stop watching porn

Go fuck a beautiful girl you enjoy as a person.

Cheers- G

Marijuana is for losers (Bold and Determined Review)

I’ll admit I’m biased.

Biased towards everything uncle Vic says.

But I’m not an idiot.

From the desk of our friend Victor Pride down at Bold and Determined

(Click this for his article)

He has crafted a masterful article on the use of the Mary Jane, and he isn’t all talk either.

Marijuana is legal in the formerly great state of Colorado. Denver is the biggest city in Colorado. In 2013,48.4% of those arrested in Denver had marijuana in their system.

“But I thought marijuana calms you down, man?”

That is a lie. Marijuana does not calm you down, it actually increases your heart rate. Eventually, it temporarily relieves the symptoms that it gives you.

A widely held belief among marijuana users is that marijuana use helps to relieve anxiety and improve depression. Based on the available research, it seems that the euphoric,pleasant and anxiety-relieving effects produced by marijuana are only temporary and can actually contribute to worsening symptoms of depressive and anxiety disorders with higher concentrations of THC and the chronic use of marijuana.” (source)

“Medical Use”

If you use cannabis oil for REAL medical use, not recreational purposed, fuck yeah I’m down for not watching kids with uncontrollable shakes feel better and older people getting rid of their glaucoma.

But odds are your average stoner isn’t really in much need of it. I’ve seen weed turn people into losers, sure they may not be on a meth level of addiction but they still turn to it like a crutch.

When you use substances that distort your natural perception of the world, you’re a coward.

Stay clean, stay rigid.

Cheers – G

Be mean. Be kind. Be the King

How to treat others.

I’d bet my left testicle that when it comes to the topic of how you should treat other people you should treat them how you want to be treated.

Now you don’t have to be Pavlov and his dogs to understand why that is a horrendous idea, you treat others in response to how they treat you.

I don’t praise my dog for killing the neighbors cat.

I praise it when it sits on command.

I do not reward an unruly woman.

I reward submission.

Get it?

We often take people who serve us for granted, and tend to suck up to those that look down on or belittle us.

We feel good when we have to work for something, and crave validation from other sources. But when you become self-assured, you become a source of validation.

Don’t believe me? Do you find yourself chasing things/people who don’t want you or you don’t have instead of tending to the things that already belong to you?

Ambition is admirable, self deprecation is foolish and pitiful.

Compromise on things if it truly benefits you. Otherwise deal in absolutes.

“You’re either with me, or against me”

Some will call it egotistical, those will be the people you want to avoid.

But those who are with you, you must treat well, how could you not love those who support you and your will?

Cheers- G

The Ultimate Guide to Getting Big.


As promised, here is the most detailed guide I can give to you to working out and getting big and strong.

The Fundamentals


1.) Identify your daily caloric expenditure using this calculator → Calorie Calculator

2.) To Bulk (Gain Muscle) Eat 200-500 Calories above maintenance per day.

3.) To Cut (Lose Fat) perform Zig-Zagging. Eat 1,000 Calories below maintenance one day, and regular the next. This prevents metabolic adaptation.


1.) Protein- The building block of all cells, especially muscle, protein should make up 35-45% of your calories, and should come from animal sources like: Chicken, Beef and Fish

2.) Fats- Responsible for producing your hormones and cementing protein into your body, should always exceed carb intake. Best sources come from animal meat. Should make up 40-50% of your calorie intake

3.) Carbs- Carbs can either fuck you up or jack you up. Eat low sugary, higher fiber carbs (Rice, Whole bread, etc) before, during and after your workouts to keep cortisol levels low. Should make up 5-25% of your calorie intake.

Mechanisms of Hypertrophy (Muscle Growth)

  1. Mechanical Tension- I could go on with what this shit means, in layman’s terms. Lift, Heavy, Shit (1-3 Rep Range/90-100% of your 1 rep max.)
  2.    Metabolic Stress- Ever beat your dick so long your arm got tired, basically that but with weights and less gay. (8-20+ Rep range/40-80% of your 1RM)

 Muscle Damage- This is literally just doing enough volume to cause a change in homeostasis (Train as hard as you need to fatigue yourself, FATIGUE, not destroy)

What Exercises? (Strength/Mechanical Tension)

Here’s the only 4 big lifts you’ll ever really need.

  1. Deadlift → How to Deadlift
  2. Squat → How to Squat
  3. Bench → How to Bench Press
  4. Overhead Press → How to Overhead Press

What Exercises? (Metabolic Stress)

I prefer Calisthenics for higher reps but I’ll list both.


  1. Dumbell Press
  2. Weighted Pullups
  3. Weighted Lunges
  4. Straight-Legged Deadlift
  5. Weighted Sit-ups
  6. Calf Raises


  1. Push ups
  2. Pull ups
  3. L-sits
  4. Handstand Pushups
  5. Pistol Squats
  6. Sprints (Oh my fuck sprints are awesome)

How Hard? How Much? How Often?

These three questions are narrowed into these three terms

Training Frequency

Training Volume

Training Intensity

  1. Training Frequency- Training frequency is how often you train, higher training frequency is objectively better, so you can train everyday or more as long as you adjust your intensity and volume accordingly.
  2.     Training Volume- The total amount of work you’re doing for that workout, higher volume equates to a larger effect (Think about tanning, if you stay out too long you get fucked) You want workouts to stay under an hour to keep testosterone levels high.
  3. Training intensity- 0-100, and whatever number in between. High intensity is better for muscle growth but like I posted above, you need to work at all levels of intensity.


Fuck being tired, I like to train everyday, so if you’re going to manage your fatigue, you must recover like an animal, to accomplish this realize there’s only two types of fatigue you accumulate from working out.

Nervous System


To recover from Cellular fatigue, you must eat and eat well, to recover from nervous system fatigue you must relax, sleep and breathe very deeply.

Do all this and you’ll be on your way to some big ass ANCHOR ARMS.

Cheers- G

Men and Women (A Guide)

No this is not a guide on swinging.



Men are men and women are women, this is not opinionated, simply a fact.

If you want to reproduce, as a man you must fuck a woman. And vice-versa.

Men and women have masculine and feminine traits, physically and also certain traits that are assigned under the labels; Masculine and Feminine.

Personality wise, masculine and feminine personalities are interchangeable with sex.

You can be a woman who is certain of herself and likes to dominate and that’s not a problem.

You can be a man who scales more toward the feminine aspect.

Both of these things are natural.

 But when you label masculine and feminine under a set of rules and things that must be done, then you have a problem.

Masculinity is not something you do, it’s who you are.

Femininity is also something you feel.

A masculine man, does not question himself, he simply knows what he wants and he does it.

The masculine woman does not question herself, she knows what she wants and does it.

The feminine man wavers and is uncertain and accepts that and enjoys the chaos.

The feminine woman wavers and is uncertain and accepts that and enjoys the chaos.

What does it all mean.

While you must be sexually attracted to your other, afterwards you must identify who you are and who they are in concordance to Masculine and Feminine personas.

Use the traits listed to figure out which one you are.

Masculine Traits

  • Imposes it’s will, does not succumb
  • Self-Assured
  • Is powered from within
  • Direct
  • Associates dominance
  • Leads
  • Protects
  • “Manly”

Feminine Traits

  • Uncertain
  • Nuturing
  • Shy
  • Chaotic
  • Plyable
  • Submissive (Passive)
  • Serves
  • “Female”

Hope this helps out.

Cheers!- G



What is it?

Power as defined in the dictionary goes as so: “the capacity or ability to direct or influence the behavior of others or the course of events.”

So one could so this.


Now to pose the question.

How do I influence?

1.) You must have something that the other party wants.

2.) Remember, you will either influence or be influenced

3.) Your influence can come from internal factors, or other people. Pray that it comes from your desires.

4.) The most influential word in the English language is NO. You do not have to do anything anyone says unless you want to.

5.) Be an asshole if it serves a purpose, being an asshole for the sake of being an asshole is pretty useless, kindness and generosity go much farther when people have earned it. Anger and spite only wound if it is for no reason.

How to not be influenced.

Minimal influence from the outside world is inevitable, always ignore people but never ignore reality.

But as it says plain and simple.


If you ignore something, there can be no reaction. Therefore, no influence. Now clearly you only want to do this with people who’s concern for you is not genuine.

Hope you found this useful.

Cheers- G

Fuck off

“I like you as a friend”

Fuck off

“Can you work this weekend even though I didn’t schedule you?”

Fuck off

“Skip the gym tonight”

Fuck off

“Stop trying to be an entrepreneur, get a real job, go to colle..”

Fuck off

“If you were my friend you’d”

Fuck off

If it isnt something you need or want to do, fuck off

You are a man. Act like it.

You lie and use subtlety because you are a coward.

You are a man, fucking act like it, do what you want.


I do not respect liars, I do not respect a coward.

I can only respect men who challenge me or stand beside me.






Prepare for violence.

Are you prepared for a complete stranger to come up to you with a knife in the street, can you defend yourself and your loved ones?

Or do you not think something like that could happen?


I read recently about a man in Sweden who was forced to watch refugees rape his wife and when interviewed later he stated “I never thought something like this would happen here”

“I never thought”

It’s ok to never think Stevie Wonder will grow his eyeballs back or never think that sand will become water if you squeeze it hard enough. It’s never ok to think someone won’t kill you for the hell of it, because someone out there right now is plotting your death, directly or indirectly, will you stand ready to protect what is yours?

Go learn how to fight

How to shoot

How to live