Treat others how you want to be treated…….
Good things are not always accomplished by good means.
Here’s an example:
You’re 8 again and some bigger kid kicks you in the balls, but you want him to be your friend, so do you?
A.) Ask him to be your friend while he’s kicking you in the dick
B.) Beat that motherfucker into submission then both gain a mutual respect
It’s a real FUCKING TOSSUP
Here’s another one that isn’t so simple.
Let’s say you are in the middle of something important, a workout, work, etc.
Some stranger comes up to you, and asks you for 5 dollars, no explanation.
You’re probably going to have one or two responses.
You feel empathy and give them the money.
Or you get angry, that this fucker would dare interrupt you for YOUR money.
Either way you lose, but if you think giving them the money is the right thing, think again. That money could have helped you and someone else, that person doesn’t know you and will most likely forget you.
But Gray, it sounds like you’re saying to be a massive cunt to people.
Yes, I am.
But only to people who aren’t helping you. People who can help themselves don’t need my money.
I reserve my money for three things
- The Defenseless
- My family
- Helping Myself
If some grown ass man asked me for a favor and I got nothing in return, I might feel good doing it in the moment, but when I finish I would feel.
Well… I’d feel like I lost, what the fuck did I just gain? A friend?
No I lost money and gained someone who might take advantage of my kindness.
The real golden rule is called
Two parties benefiting from one another.
Now go out there and Win-Win